Have you got a question about love, dating, sex or relationships? Our team of Experts are here to offer you their professional advice. All you have to do is ask! “Hi, I am 25 yrs old and I am in a relationship with a guy who is 32 years old. I am happy with him, he treats me like a princess… but the problem is he wants physical intimacy and I don’t want it unless we are married. This topic is really becoming a headache for both of us and I don’t know what to do… please help?”

We showed this question to 3 of our Experts and below is their advice to our anonymous reader. First up is some advice from the High Priestess of Love Pamela Cummins. What I am intuitively getting is this guy truly loves you and feels he has been very patient with you. He has never been so patient with a woman. I am also getting strongly that he will not marry you before becoming intimate with you, because he is not ready to, and doesn’t want to be married to someone who may not enjoy sex.

To put it bluntly, there are very few men who are going to marry you before sampling you. No one can tell you what to do because this is your value. I heard the voice of a former spiritual adviser say, “Make a pro and cons list,” write down all the good and bad about waiting to become physically intimate after marriage. If you stick to your value there is a strong chance you could lose him. I commend you on wanting to wait and I’m sure he will too. Blessings, Pamela Cummins

My best advice is to let him know why you are waiting and what it really means to you. If he loves you and it’s real he will embrace your choice and possibly “put a ring on it”, or he’ll move on. You will learn about his character either way. You know exactly what you need to do, you’re just hoping you won’t have to do it. Relationships aren’t built on being treated like a princess. A relationship is meant for two people to help each other towards common goals and one vision for the future.